The Cakewalk System: Stop Sugar Cravings In 5 Uncomplicated Steps.

Stop Sugar CravingsToday I’m going to tell you how I ended my lifelong struggle with sugar cravings. I used to have an insane sweet tooth. Heck, my first job was at an ice cream store and I was their best customer!

How did I stop sugar cravings? The Cakewalk System.

This post shares every step of my journey to defeat sugar cravings so that you can learn from my experience.

I was standing in front of the freezer shoveling just one more bite of New York Super Fudge Chunk into my mouth when a fudgy chunk fell onto my white shirt. At that moment, I decided that this pint should never have crossed my threshold. Ashamed and guilty, I put the ice cream in the trash.

As I stared at the premium ice cream melting in my garbage can, I realized this was a problem bigger than my willpower alone.

Three weeks later I had transformed my world into a sugar binge-proof zone. And in the following months, I completely banished my sugar cravings by transforming the way I thought about dessert and food, in general.

My Cakewalk System, as I like to call it, did not just help me lose weight. I freed myself from a years-long struggle with guilt, failure, and intrusive cravings that interfered with my life. Even if I hadn’t lost a pound, I’d feel much lighter!

The Cakewalk System is twofold: I mastered my environment and my mindset in order to declare victory over sugar cravings.

How The Cakewalk System ended my daily sugar cravings.

The first steps I took to vanquish sugar cravings focused on my environment.

Step 1: I evicted ready-made treats.

Sugar Addiction

Resisting the stockpile of indulgent treats in my kitchen made me miserable. Even if they were divided up into single sized servings, ready-made treats were driving me nutz!

I immediately stopped buying premade sweet treats and vowed only to eat food made from scratch.

This change did not go over well with my husband, a fellow dessert lover. In the past, I would have become frustrated with him and told him just to deal with it. This time I took a different approach – I asked for help.

How to ask for help and get it:

  1. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and explain to your partner or family how having these foods in your house impacts you emotionally.
  2. Briefly explain how nutrition can affect PCOS. Tell them that if you do not clean up your diet, PCOS symptoms could get worse and that you’d be putting yourself at risk for other serious health problems.
  3. Directly ask for help. Tell the people in your life that you need their support.

Many of my clients have tried to clean up their diets and failed in part because they lacked the support of the people they live with. It can be hard to ask for help, but it is critical to making lasting changes.

Step 2: I have a single serving policy.

I knew from past diet failures that total deprivation would not ensure success. Thus, I created my single serving policy.

I never make more than one serving of dessert at a time (well, two servings: one for me and one for Colin).

For me, the most stressful thing about my sugar cravings was stopping once I had started. By eliminating leftovers, I could enjoy my dessert and move on. Gone was the fear of losing control and eating half a cake!

Whipping up single serving desserts is pretty easy, too! I have put together a collection of my very favorite single serving desserts. You can get it sent to your inbox by clicking here now.

Step 3: I ate a nutrient-dense breakfast, lunch, dinner AND dessert.

I mentioned this in my last post and I am sure I will mention it again. I’m a firm believer in the power of a nutrient-dense diet. Eating a diet of whole, unprocessed foods like fruits, veggies, eggs, meat and unprocessed whole grains has radically improved my life.

Some research on why we crave foods suggest that nutritional deficiencies may play a role in our cravings. You can protect yourself from this craving-causing complication by eating a nutrient-dense diet.

In addition to eating a healthy breakfast, lunch, and dinner, replace store-bought goodies with homemade desserts that are great sources of valuable nutrients like healthy fats, fiber, antioxidants, and vitamins.

Nutrient-dense desserts may not be low calorie, but they are much more satisfying than a traditional dessert. When you finish eating one, you’ll feel balanced and satisfied rather than guilty and craving more.

Healthy DessertsTips on making healthy desserts:

  • Download this PDF of my very favorite single serving desserts.
  • Keep staple healthy dessert ingredients like coconut milk and cocoa powder on hand.
  • Try reducing the amount of sweetener (honey, maple syrup, stevia, and sugar) in a recipe by a teaspoon  at a time, you might need less than you thought.
  • Exercise portion control. Healthy desserts can still be high-calorie foods.

These three changes to my environment made a huge difference in my life. In just three weeks, I stopped overeating on sugary foods altogether. I ate a nutritious dessert that I loved with no guilt!


There was just one problem: I loved my dessert a bit too much. I looked forward to it all day and, once it was gone, I was sad. I knew deep in my gut that my problem was not completely resolved. My love of dessert played too big a role in my life.

What was this dessert doing for me? Why was it so valuable?

My daily dessert was a major source of pleasure. There were days when it was the only bright spot. From a scientific standpoint this makes sense, our brains respond to sugar with an influx in feel-good neurochemicals – AKA a sugar high.

But I felt like my fondness for dessert time (yeah I actually called it that) went beyond a neurochemical reaction. My dessert had become a ritual. I ate it slowly and attentively. I savored the texture, taste and smell. It was also a time when I slowed down and focused on the moment instead of just thinking about the next item on my todo list.

I realized I needed to add more rewarding experiences to my day. I mean, dessert was a high point for me – that’s pretty lame!

Step 4: I eat everything like it’s a piece of cake.

piece of cakeThe slow, attentive way I ate my desserts was something I really enjoyed. When I started to eat all of my food this way, I found I ate a little less and enjoyed it a lot more.

How to eat for more pleasure:

  • Sit down at a table and eat from a plate or bowl.
  • Select nutritious foods that you like. Don’t force yourself to eat something simply because it is a superfood or your fit friend swears by it.
  • Take note of why the food you’re eating tastes good.
  • Express gratitude. Thank whoever prepared your meal. Even if you cooked it, you can still express gratitude to yourself 🙂

Step 5: I added more highs to my life.

Eating should be a pleasurable experience, but not your primary source of pleasure. If the most enjoyable part of your day is centered around food, it is time to broaden your horizons.

How to find more everyday highs:

  1. Set some time aside to make a list of 20 things you truly love to do.
  2. Review your list and circle 3-5 things you can do pretty much every day. They should be activities that are simple, inexpensive and delightful.
  3. Post this list in a place where you will see it every morning. When you wake up, make a mental note of when you will set aside a few minutes to “get high.” Schedule time to “get high” on your calendar if you need to. Make this a priority.
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    Home Sweet Home

Here are some examples from my life:

Watching the sunset.
Hugging my husband (he’s cute!).
Taking a walk on the beach.
Listening to my favorite NPR shows while sitting in my hammock.
Calling my mom or a girlfriend to catch up.

I make time for some of these simple pleasures every day. In fact, I take this very seriously and am really disciplined about it. I know that my health and well being depends on it. If I don’t make room for healthy highs in my life, I will seek out less unhealthful ones.

My average day is, well, average. But now I can count on the highs of a walk on the beach or a piece of  healthy cake. The cakewalk technique has replaced unhealthy highs in my life with true joy and better health.

If you’re struggling with sugar cravings, stop beating yourself up. Don’t blame your willpower or allow yourself to feel like a failure. Your environment and everything you have been taught about behavior change are not serving you well.

Try just one of these 5 steps and when you feel ready try another. Soon you will be free from sugar craving madness!

Are you ready to give The Cakewalk Technique a try?

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  1. says

    18 juin 2012Can I just say what a relief to find someone who actually knows what theyre talking about on the internet. You delniitefy know how to bring an issue to light and make it important. More people need to read this and understand this side of the story. I cant believe youre not more popular because you definitely have the gift.  

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